The Teacher As Bully

The current focus on the problem of "bullying" has produced a flurry of programs, mandates, legal action, books, articles, and web sites; but I have yet to see research on the insidious behavior of the biggest school bully of them all—the teacher.

By Bill Page
Education Consultant

Students who don't conform, don't hand in assignments, don't abide by rules and procedures, and who are disengaged, apathetic, and oblivious to bad marks, test results, and low grades, are the scourge of every teacher, though such students exist to varying degrees and numbers in every classroom. Two or three such "troublemakers" categorized as "at-risk" can create havoc, and cause inordinate frustration, off-task time, management problems, and discipline concerns for hard-working, well-intentioned teachers. In too many schools such students are in the majority.Attempts to get the interest, to correct the behavior, and to change the attitude of these recalcitrant, uncooperative, intractable students frequently cause teachers to resort to classroom control strategies that are not only counter productive, but that actually transform teachers into the biggest bullies in school.

Three particular problems form the basis of the teacher as bully: First, many teachers, who were good students when they were in school, fail to understand such misbehavior as defense mechanisms of students who are embarrassed, bored, or fearful of showing their incompetence.Second, in their own school experiences and teacher training, they had little opportunity to learn alternative responses to uncooperative students.Third, teachers frequently employ teaching strategies based on faulty assumptions and erroneous beliefs about negative motivation, reluctant learners, and the underlying causes of students' hostile, anti-learning, anti-teacher attitude.

Believing that punitive responses, withholding approval, using embarrassment, teasing, shame, sarcasm, and failure will cause students to improve their behavior, teachers frequently employ the very same control methods used by student bullies to intimidate their victims. Probably only a few teachers resort to deliberate bullying, humiliation, or intimidation, but too many others use these techniques thoughtlessly, automatically, subconsciously, or because they have learned that bullying, without naming it as such, is an acceptable form of student control and classroom management.

Teachers Have Power

Although teacher's intentions, reasons for control, and feelings are quite different from those of student bullies, the effect on the victim and the methods used are precisely the same.But, since teachers are role models who possess overwhelming power, authority, and influence in school, their bullying is far worse than that of notorious schoolyard bullying.In addition, teachers' lack of awareness, unwillingness, or inability to acknowledge their role, makes their bullying all the more insidious and deplorable

School culture itself can contribute to bullying. Teacher bullying behaviors are driven by the demand that individuals conform to academic and behavioral expectations whether or not those demands are appropriate or even possible.I was reminded of student perception of teacher behavior, as I observed one of my daughters, a fourth grader, playing school with three of her friends in front of the apartments where we lived.As the game began, everyone wanted to be the teacher.It is no fun being a student.Shannon, a sixth grader, who was a grade level or two above the other three, easily won the starring role.

Her performance was absolutely stellar.Whatever anyone's stereotype of the portrayal of teacher might be, Shannon played it flawlessly.From the yardstick she used as a pointer to slam against the knee-high wall, which served as her imaginary desk, to her voice inflection, intonation, gestures, and exaggerated articulation; she was a teacher. She gave orders reminiscent of my old Army drill sergeant and meted out punishment fast and furious along with nonverbal gestures and hostility that caused me to cringe.As I expected, because the students, unlike in real school, were volunteers there to play and have fun, the game didn't last long.

With the intimidation by schools and teachers, with the labeling, name-calling, judging, belittling and intimidating aspects of the No Child Left Behind Act, it seems all too logical that the punitive, coercive pressures should be extended to students in individual classrooms wherein teachers can take on the role of "Big Bad Bullies".Teachers, serving as role models, condone bullying behavior in those students eager to identify with the teacher, gain approval, and who avoid identifying with the failing and fearful students.

A Bully Pulpit

Although barely one-rung up the ladder from their students on the educational food chain, teachers nevertheless use their "bully pulpit" to intimidate failing students, who most need acceptance and understanding. Teachers' use of bullying techniques on struggling students not only fails to alleviate the problem, but creates a climate in which such behavior becomes a precursor, giving sanction to student bullying behavior and mistreatment of those same students on the playground, in the unsupervised areas of the school, in after-school activities, within teams and cliques, in homes, neighborhoods, and on the internet.

Forced into unfair competition and public comparison of daily class activities, students who feel insecure, inferior, or inept, anxiously build defenses against vulnerability to intimidation by their teachers and classmates.They learn quickly that being defiant is better than being dumb; that refusing to perform is not as embarrassing as inability to perform; and, that gaining respect of some classmates by disrespectful behaviors and clowning is better than attempting to gain approval of teachers.Sadly, students learn that bullying is the best defense against bullying and they learn to use bravado, swagger, and aggression to preclude its use on them.Teachers who fail to recognize these behaviors as defenses will react in ways that exacerbate the difficulty instead of responding in ways that reduce the problem.Without understanding root cause of the offenses, teachers feel justified in punitive reactions, intimidating gestures, facial expression, sighs, and disapprobation.

Bullying: A Universal Problem

"Bullying is a problem in every school in the world," said Andrew Mellor, manager of the Anti-Bullying Network."Bullying can be both physical and psychological.It ranges from subtle forms such as social exclusion and labeling, to harassing and tormenting, to threatening, and coercing, and to violence."Among many characteristics that define bullying, it is generally accepted to be an imbalance of power that exists over a period of time between two individuals in which the more powerful intimidate or belittle others.Who would deny that such a definition and characteristics match many student-teacher relationships perfectly?

Bullying is also based on physical size and strength, power, position, authority, superior knowledge and competence -- all of which teachers possess naturally as a part of their responsibility.It takes only a fraction of their potential power to intimidate a student.In fact, it doesn't even take intention to bully. The mere potential, regardless of the intention to bully is sufficient in many instances to exercise bullying.And in a few cases, it can be the students' perception of the teachers' power that intimidates them.

Fear Dominates School Culture

Fear, whether intentional or not, is the basis of the reward and punishment system of control that dominates school culture. Schools are run on fear. Everybody in the institution is fearful. Fear is not just a characteristic of the"inmates" but likewise of the staff and everyone at every echelon from bottom to top of the educative hierarchy.

John Holt in his first book, How Children Fail, described the presence of fear well:

"The idea of painless, non-threatening coercion is an illusion.Fear is the inseparable companion of coercion, and its inescapable consequences.If you think it is your duty to make children do what you want, whether they will or not; then, it follows inexorably that you must make them afraid of what will happen to them if they don't do what you want.

You can do this in the old fashioned way, openly and avowedly, with the threat of harsh words, infringement of liberty, or physical punishment.You can do it in the modern way, subtly, smoothly, quietly, by withholding the acceptance and approval which you and others have trained the children to depend on or by making them feel that some retribution awaits them in the future, too vague to imagine but too implacable to escape.

You can, as many skilled teachers do, learn to tap with a word, a gesture, a look, even a smile, the great reservoir of fear, shame and guilt that today's children carry around inside them.Or you can simply let your own fears about what will happen to you if the children don't do what you want, reach out and infect them."

If students are anxious, fearful, frustrated, worried, or intimidated all of their thinking is focused on the source of the anxiety and on relieving or escaping the painful situation. Far more students are fearful of their teacher than are fearful of student bullies.Many teachers threaten, coerce, intimidate, embarrass, and humiliate students who are different, non-conforming, behind in their work, or not engaged. It is unfortunate that students who most need positive attention, acceptance, and someone to express care and concern about them are the ones most likely to incur just the opposite, negative attention.Whatever it is that school administrators and policy makers think the students most vulnerable to bullying need—surely, bullying could not possibly be one of them.

Teachers Are the Biggest Bullies

The biggest bullies in school are teachers. While their position, reasons, and intentions are very different from the schoolyard bullies, their impact is far worse.Student failure, not just failing a test, but inability to accomplish the required class work and daily assignments, frequently results in repeated failure and continuing condescension, sarcasm, and stigmatizing and embarrassing consequences.

At-risk students live in fear – fear of rejection and humiliation; fear of ostracism, continued failure and grade retention; fear of being thought stupid; and, worst of all, fear that they may actually be stupid. Equally insidious to the "fear factor" is the problem of the "good students" who seek teacher approval by identifying with the teacher and joining the ostracism and marginalization of non-conforming students, or pandering the teacher by "picking on", gossiping about, and tattling on the low-achieving students. "goody-goodies" snitching on misbehaving problem students is an all too common occurrence.

Students who create defensive gambits are marginalized and left with only the other intimidated students as associates, who are likewise marginalized.They become friends. They learn from support and encouragement as they exchange ideas with one another.In sufficient numbers, these students become a major threat to the teacher personally, to class management, and to learning thereby triggering increased drastic bullying procedures by the teachers.The bullying process sometimes encourages classmates to scorn or shun the victim.The process can progress to include added pressure from administrators, auxiliary district personnel and intensified parental pressure.

Teachers Need to Recognize their Own Bullying

If schools are to reduce school bullying, current programs being adopted by school districts which include bullies, the bullied and the bystanders must also include specific procedures for helping teachers to become more aware of their own modeling potential for bullying with its symptoms, causes, and solutions.The potential for bullying by teachers is manifest in some of the same characteristics of student bullies -- an imbalance of power, a desire to control, and approval of bystanders.In other words, because teachers have a natural potential to bully students, they must be aware of that capability and be on guard against it.

Teachers become role models for bullying.Their behavior and attitude toward non-conforming students and failing schoolwork can be a precedent for behavior for other students in the class toward the low or non-performing students.This is especially true for the more successful kids who cater to and identify with the teacher. This behavior and attitude are complex and elaborate.They also can be deliberate and subconscious.From the tensing of the muscles, dilation of the pupils and nostrils, intonation, voice inflection and posture to the word choice, gestures, movement and facial expressions, the message is unmistakable The criticisms and concerns of school bullying can be applied to the treatment of the at-risk or failing students in a classroom.The students at the bottom of the class are well known to everyone in class, as are the top students.Most adults remember from their schooling students who were "picked on" by teachers.

Teachers Don't Knowingly Harm Children

Describing teachers as bullies doesn't mean that teachers deliberately hurt children. Most teachers, described as bullies, are not mean-spirited, malicious or even uncaring.They are highly educated, sensitive, professionals, who love their students, love teaching and want what is best for children.But schooling, as it is structured with age grouping, lock-step one-size-fits-all, mandatory curriculum, pre-ordained learning procedures, grade levels, schedules, failure, and retention make many students particularly susceptible to bullying techniques for discipline and control.Many students suffer anxiety, fear, and embarrassment by the actions of teachers described herein as bullying.Some former students, to this day, still suffer shame, low self-esteem and psychological problems as the result of their schooling experiences, possibly initiated and condoned by teachers themselves.

Teacher Belief Is the Cause

Teachers act according to their beliefs, however they also act within a hierarchy of those beliefs.I am convinced that teachers believe in the dignity and worth of every child, including those most at-risk.But simultaneously they believe in the importance of effective lessons in an orderly, disciplined classroom.As their classroom sanctity is violated, their priority requires that they deal quickly and certainly with the offenders even at the expense of student dignity and worth.In the absence of better procedures, bullying techniques fit that requirement.

Many teachers firmly believe, however contrary to a preponderance of the evidence, that bullying, punishment, and coercion will solve their dilemma.Others believe that shame and social pressure will change student behavior.Three steps to reducing "the teacher as bully" are first, for schools to provide professional development and study groups to enable teachers to examine and reflect on their beliefs; second, to help teachers recognize student defense mechanisms as symptoms requiring helpful, professional responses; and third, to understand their role as a model of anti-bullying.

As teachers discuss their experiences in managing student behavior, a friendly question ala the Dr. Phil Show, "How's that working for you?" would be a good start toward resolving the problem of"The Teacher As Bully".

Bill Page is author of, At-Risk Students: Feeling Their Pain, Understanding Their Plight, Accepting Their Defensive Ploys.Book Description: http://www.teacherteacher.com/

All comments, challenges, reactions, and questions are appreciated and answered.Bill Page .mailto:billpage@bellsouth.com

Published December 3, 2007


Comments (20)

Jason
Said this on 3-12-07 At 10:08 pm
All this is fine; that at-risk children have defensive ploys I have no problem believing. But the author provides zero alternatives here--what about when the hand signals do not work? It's hard for me to fault a teacher who wants an orderly classroom. Disorderly classrooms cause a lot of static that inhibits learning. Without fail, if some "defensive ploys", seem to be accepted then they will be imitated by others. While I certainly believe that teachers must examine and be willing to adjust their own beliefs there are many times when a smile or hand signal is not enough. To believe otherwise is to be coddling misbehavior.
BB
Said this on 1-3-10 At 09:50 am

With all due respect to good teachers, I give you an alternative for the "bullies" send their sorry a$$es home. How can we do that? Very simple classroom surveillance. Please, the privacy concerns are nothing but excuses to keep bullies/bad teachers in the classroom. Besides, that argument falls apart when we put volunteers, chaperones, field trips, school special activities and so forth in the classroom or school.  I firmly believe over 97% of parents would sign any confidentiality waiver especially those in special ed.

BB
Said this on 1-3-10 At 09:56 am

That's absolutely right. When other students realized how the teachers feels about you they become voltures and unconciously will single you out because they themselves are afraid that if they side with you they themselves will become the target of the teacher. If the rest of the class doesn't bully you as well at the very least they will leave you by yourself helpless.

 

I am sorry that this has happened to you. By now I hope your ordeal is over.

BB
Said this on 1-3-10 At 09:52 am

Well said Shana!

Katy
Said this on 5-6-09 At 11:59 am

I had a really horrible experience today with a teacher. It was the first time I ever had a class with her. I did nothing to provoke her, all I did was tell her my name and then she made fun of my voice and my braces in front of the class. The whole time she was doing it she had a sadistic grin all over her face. My dad is going to report her, she is an evil bitch and I hope she gets fired, just so she can feel an ounce of the misery and humiliation she put me through today. I hate her.

Thorkil Green Nielsen
Said this on 19-7-09 At 05:13 am

Dear Bill Page,

Your articles will be a valuable contribution to the ongoing debate in Denmark. I am an educational journalist writing about experiences with teachers who bully in other countries, and I would be very happy if I could contact you with more questions.

reygan
Said this on 17-8-09 At 01:40 am

nx for this site......x squared

Worried Mother
Said this on 22-8-09 At 05:48 pm

I am a mother of a child that has just moved to a rural town with a small middle school. My son has some behavioral issues, his does have some learning dissabilities and Tourettes Syndrome with ADD and anxiety. The principle and 4 of his teachers have are targeting him for this bullying. They have made several comments about this isn't the city you are from, you are here and we do things different.

I think they are racist. My son made friends with the few black kids in his grade. Right off the principle tells me his is already off track, he has made friends with their two trouble makers. I know these kids and their parents, they are not trouble makers, they are just black. I did not raise my son to worry about the color of someones skin, people are people. But here in redneck ville I guess there is alot of small minded people who are teaching our kids to be small minded as well.

They have humiliated him in front of other students several times. They have made him read aloud in front of his 8th grade health class when they know he reads at a 4th grade level, and the teacher smiled the whole time and when he was finished had the rest of the class read to themselves. They have a problem with his pants sagging and have called him out of his classroom in the middle of the hallway and joked with each other about his attire and made him pull his pants up over his navel while continuing to joke with each other. This wasted 10 mins of class time for the 3 teachers, and for him. The teacher whoes class they pulled him from did nothing, and all the student witnessed this. The principle has made several comments to him, and has even pulled his pants up to where she thought appropriate in the hallway herself without first asking him to do so. They are bringing him pants to wear to the office on Monday and plan on making him change into them everyday, until I can afford to buy pants that are one size smaller that don't bag so much in the back. I am just sick about the way they are treating him, he is not the only child that wears these clothes, they are 32s and he measures 31.

I think they see him as a trouble maker and they are afraid that if they don't bully him, he will change their "perfect country children" into big city problems. I am at a loss to know how to deal with this, he is so upset everyday he comes home with some story of how he is treated by the teachers and it is only the 2nd week of school. If the principle is behaving the same way, then I must assume there is no help there.

Advise and help is needed and appreciated, Prayers are wonderful too.

 

BB
Said this on 28-2-10 At 10:57 pm

Please, I bet you moved somewhere in TN.

Richard
Said this on 4-2-10 At 06:57 am

It is part of the job, the education system.  One of the groups that have had their rights violated the most are those with any learning disability.  This is further excaserbated by teachers that bully.  Do not do anything or say anything that you do not ALSO put in writing, remember, if it is not in writing it does not exist.  document EVERYTHING by writing it down, make it into a letter and send it to the teacher - paper trail.  If need be send these notes to the principa - paper trail.  Keep track of your notes and what they write to you and any documentation in a 3 ring binder and date everything.  If you can, get an educational advocate.  If the principal does not respond go over their head to the school superintendent.  As in ANYTHING, there are good and bad.  There are good teachers and there are uncaring, incapable, bad teachers.  Bad ones need to be weeded out for everyone's sake, especially kids.  If a teacher does not agree with this then that makes that person part of the problem, not part of the solution.  The job of the parent is to represent and advocate for their child. 

BB
Said this on 28-2-10 At 11:01 pm

I really want cameras in the classrooms.

Allen
Said this on 11-12-07 At 12:21 pm
Well said, Jason. I don't see the alternative suggestions, which, of course, leads me to wonder how much time the author has spent in an actual classroom.
Sharon
Said this on 11-3-08 At 05:03 pm
I believe this article is on target. Yes, it may provide more insight on the problem than the solution, nonetheless, teacher bullying is problematic and leaves it's harmful effects on the child well after the child leaves the classroom. Any teacher who cannot examine themselves from within, should not teach. Not all teachers in the classroom belong there!
Robin Gulack
Said this on 16-7-08 At 12:13 am
Teacher bullying is a bigger problem than what people think. No kid should ever have to dread going to school every morning and worry about what mood is the teacher in and end up being screamed at, criticized unfairly, or be threatened, especially if this teacher is manipulative. And kids are not punching bags if a teacher is angry about something. What they're angry about has nothing to do with the kid. If they have that much anger, hatred, jealousy, or whatever and cannot control it they are interfering with progress and are therefore unfit to even be teachers. If they have any shame or conscience at all they would get themselves some professional help and not be the cause of kids having to go for counseling. There is no excuse for their actions and buttering the kid up after getting him/her upset is unacceptable as well. Sooner or later they will have to be held accountable for their despicable actions. The principal needs to keep an eye on the teachers and their conduct, and keep the sharpest eye on those that are the most complained about.
DC
Said this on 30-8-08 At 12:29 am
Reading this article has been a godsend to me. I am a mature student on a postgrad course run by a relatively small private institution who charge a lot of money for their tuition towards a masters degree. This is a three year course and I am seriously stressed, not by the work but by the bullying tutors. I was very scared to complain about tutors because the college is so small and the same tutors assess the practical exams. To date I have failed every assessment that they have set, despite passing all assessments in an associate institution which provides the academic teaching. For a long time I have felt exactly how Mr Page describes - fearful, even though I am an 'A' student and have given this course my all. I have been alienated by all, including other students, exactly as Mr Page describes. Because this is a post grad course I suspect there could be professional jealousy at play too. I can't back out of the course because it has cost too much money and I really want the masters qualification. Worst of all, I am already in highly successful practice and have been through phases where I feel totally worthless and stupid, to a point of feeling guilty about taking money from my clients for my expertise. I cry a lot and it has affected my family too. They have to pick up the pieces when I attend. I am fighting back - not easy when finals are approaching - but I feel I have to defend my professionalism.

I took on this course to increase my confidence. All it has done is to crush my confidence and potentially harm my reputation as other tutors and students now have the impression that my constant failure means that I am stupid, because the tutors have gossipped among themselves. Thank you so much Mr Page. I can now see that I have been far too polite about this situation.
Cheryl
Said this on 8-3-09 At 01:09 am
I think this article is on target. My son is in Grade Three and hates school because his teacher constantly belittles him and makes singles him out in front of the class. I know that she does this because she actually tried this with me in the room!! Being a teacher is a privelige and giving my child to a school should come with the trust that my child will be treated fairly.
annmarie
Said this on 9-3-09 At 11:45 pm
As a special needs educator I have been in classrooms and have personally witnessed outragous bully behavior by a teacher. I know there are good teachers out there but we really do need to gaurd against this practice.
Shubha Hosalli
Said this on 6-4-09 At 12:30 am
All bullies in schools, workplaces and society are products of bully teachers
Ron
Said this on 23-4-09 At 02:59 am
My son is also in third grade. He hates school becuase his teacher is fixated on his every move.
He had a headache in class
one day and she said he looked like he was in pain.
She asked him what was wrong. He did not say a word.
HE BETTER COME UP WITH THE RIGHT ANSWERS. BECAUSE
HE ALWAYS HAS THE WRONG ANSWER AS TO WHAT IS WRONG.
SHE TOLD ME HE DID NOT WRITE HIS NAME ON HIS PAPER AND THAT. Then she says that she said that she had two papers left and
that one was his paper and
the other one was someone elses. BUT NEXT TIME SHE WOULD THROW HIS PAPER AWAY.
I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT SHE WRITES OTHER KIDS NAMES ON THEIR PAPERS WHEN THEY DON'T.
I know for a fact that some of the other kids when she grades their papers don't have the right answers on their papers she doesn't count
them wrong. Except she always writes (rong.)

Shana
Said this on 24-4-09 At 09:56 am
The purpose of the article is not to provide alternate suggestions for the teachers, but to bring the problem of teachers who bully to light.
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